4 things women should do when their husbands commit adultery
True love must be built on the basis of mutual trust but believe in it, not believing, imposing the thought that he is the only one in his eyes.
Open up a bit so you can accept the lie more gently. When an adulterous husband is just an unnecessary risk of an "investment project" called "happy family" or "dream home".
What should we do when we know our husbands commit adultery?
In the world there are two types of men or adultery, that is, men are in love and men are married. It is true. More easily understood, almost all men are at risk of adultery, including ideological adultery. But hey, tell you adultery to think of someone without going any further? Too unreal. So when men have an affair, they make love to outsiders. And when signs of adultery appear, any marriage will more or less gradually come to the brink of collapse. The outcome and outcome of the story is well known. Everyone knows how painful and terrible it is to be betrayed. So why not do the following to take it proactive and "less painful"?
1. Be alert enough, brave and independent enough
Perhaps there is no need for psychological analysis why there are adulterous husbands doing anything else because everyone memorizes the mantra "men who both crave to get bored quickly" or "men of strange strangers". The purpose of the article is only to share and help women have a better view of this issue. I believe a modern woman is alert enough, brave and independent enough not to collapse to men. The two people who come together decide to marry to cultivate and build a family together. Everyone wishes the family to be happy. But if at some point the family is no longer warm and full of suspicion due to the deception from the husband, the women consider it as an unnecessary risk. If you feel you can still forgive, forgive. If you cannot forgive, give up and take care of yourself as well as your own happiness. You don't need to endure or try to live for anyone.
2. Don't be too confident and magical about your role
You should get rid of your childish thoughts that he only loves and is loyal to you. He'll feel guilty when he goes to bed with someone. I trust my husband or my lover and I am also confident of my position in his heart.
Yes, maybe he just loves and always "tries" to be loyal to his friend. Actually, according to the way of thinking of men, they tell the truth, they promise really whether it is the promised time or the months after that. They are confident that they still love their wives and fulfill the responsibilities of their husbands, fathers, and family heads. The covert sex is only considered a moment of distraction and they can completely control it. Gradually, they treated the girls as being outside the normal way of drinking or smoking. Europe is just one of the "bad habits" that men often suffer. And actually when struggling with a girl in bed, at that time in the mind of an adulterous husband who was only passionate about satisfying lust. The image of her lover or wife, no matter how beautiful, is gone from their heads. Right in front of their eyes were just the lips, the other breast and the hot butt.
You should understand that sometimes having relationships between your men and the girls out there is really hard to grasp. They have the right to have their best friends they give the beautiful name "intimacy". With intimates they can be themselves, be understood and listen to share. Somewhere it has been said that a soulmate who is both a lover and sometimes a lover can be a wife. So do not be too extreme in thinking he is only his only because there are times when he is in the arms of another girl and suddenly that moment you are losing him.
True love must be built on the basis of mutual trust but believe in it, not believing, imposing the thought that he is the only one in his eyes. Open up a bit so you can accept the lie more gently.
3. Don't look down on and only attack on mistresses
The fox girls out there are now more diverse and evolved than before. They need nothing, no money, no responsibility, no destiny. What they need is simply love or nakedness and instinct rather than to solve the physiological problem only. They are also not foolish to challenge or destroy other people's families. Those who know what only obediently meet the needs of the lover and then return him back to his wife and children. Even they always remind the lover to delete all messages and be careful not to let any lipstick be allowed to stick on his shirt. That is indeed dangerous. And so to see the problem clearly lies in your adulterous husband. Is responsible to blame him one is too weak the second is too "strange desire". In the end, the situation is equally bad.
4. Do not try to know everything, because the more you know, the more you live in torment
As mentioned above, the affair with the "know her girlfriend" is really too dangerous because the wife will not three